Hey guys,
today we're chatting about fashion sense and finding our own personal, unique style.
I constantly see pictures of fashion bloggers looking amazingly chic and cool and beautiful in their blog posts or instagram pictures and I'm just standing there like "wow she's gorgeous,I wish I could put together pieces like that and rock those heels or jackets.."!!
So I thought about it and realized that the first thing that you need in order to find your very own personal style is CONFIDENCE !
Now this is a very touchy subject, I'm am aware of the fact that the majority of us is still on the road to find confidence and to feel good in our own skin especially when we're young.
I mean.. I'm 19 years old so I'm still a young girl and I've always been pretty shy and insecure but sometimes you just need to step out of your comfort zone and be strong enough to say "WHO CARES?!" I understand that it's not that easy as it sounds but you can take baby steps and try little by little, maybe you can start by your own,in your room doing a different makeup or trying on some clothes that you really wanna wear but you're too scared of doing it in public or just putting on some high heels and walk around your room like you're on a runway haha!
It sounds silly but it really helps,you're gonna feel happy that you did it and you're gonna slowly build your confidence until you're gonna be ready to step outside the door and show everyone how cool and beautiful you look!!
Learn to love yourself and embrace your body because it's something that you can't really change, you can lose or gain weight or cut your hair but in the end it's gonna be YOU! So stop comparing yourself to models or simply other people because you're beautiful too and instead of underestimate your beauty and waste it you should try different styles until you find the one that fits you better and makes you feel happy this is the AMAZING thing about clothes, that you can change them whenever you want ;) !
And if this post hasn't convinced you yet think about the fact that time goes by so fast and it's such a shame to waste your youth and your time hating yourself because society told you on a magazine that your body is not right only because you're not super tall or very skinny.
Don't be a fool,you don't have to fit inside the box because guess what?THERE'S NO BOX!!
You don't need to be like those FAKE role models because I'm sorry but nobody has the power to look photoshopped in real life, you can be different and naturally beautiful which is even better and just think about how many young girls and maybe boys you could help by showing them your confidence, I mean you could be a ROLE MODEL and a trend setter!!That sounds so exciting to me.
I really hope this helps if you're having a bad time.
Remember to always Smile,Love and have fun cause you guys are amazing human beings and you all deserve it!
I love you xx,
Jo.